To Drink or Not to Drink, That Is the Question

Alcohol is served at almost every single professional event.  You always see people walking around the room with a beverage in hand.  Is it appropriate as a recruit, or prospective employee, to drink?  If so, how much is acceptable?  There is no hard and fast rule, but here are a few tips to help you navigate these tricky waters.

Gauge the Environment Around You

Does it seem like only the partners are indulging?  Are most people enjoying beer and wine, or are mixed drinks the norm?  You want to blend in as much as possible.  Think "chameleon".  Also, you do not want to overdo it at a professional event.  Self-police how many alcoholic beverages you can enjoy, so you do not lose your focus, and you are still conscious of your actions.

You never want to be the center of attention.  If you drink a little too much, excuse yourself and head home.  It is better to show up and leave a positive and short impression than be "that person who ended up dancing on an elevated surface".  If you are not a drinker, do not fret--no one is asking what is in your glass.  Get water, soda, or any beverage that you want, and no one is going to cross-examine you.

Keep a Clear Head

Everyone knows alcohol impairs your judgment.  This is no secret, and it is easy for someone to tell when your judgment is impaired.  You need to pace yourself, and you need to regulate yourself.  You may make connections at these professional events that could land you your dream job or your dream internship, but unfortunately, it can all be erased if you do not keep tabs on yourself.  Just because there is unlimited free alcohol does not mean that you can treat the event like an undergraduate fraternity party.

At professional events, you are there to make a good impression.  Sloshed and slurring is not the image that you want to leave with anyone, even if it is an associate.  Following these events, the firm often asks its employees to share information about the people that they found memorable (and this means the good and the bad).  Make sure that your behavior lands you on the nice list.

Take an Uber or Lyft

At these events, I personally choose not to carpool--I would much rather depend on Uber or Lyft to get me home.  There is no way to keep perfect tabs on a designated driver, so I always choose to be safe and take one of these services home.  I am lucky in the fact that my Uber/Lyft rides are never very long, so I come out with a fare that's usually less than $10.  But, if there is a large surge in the area, I will share the ride with a friend that lives close to me.

The important thing is to be smart, be safe, and do what is best for you.

Lots of love,